when i leave

there's recently a new chinese drama on channel 8, 9pm, showing every weekdays. it's about a guy trying to get accepted by his future father-in-law. a lovely girlfriend, a career still budding. his father-in-law is seriously a very irritating fellow. haha.. soon, the girlfriend is going to leave for America as requested by her company to attend a course for one year. they wanted to register for marriage before going but the her father was able to coax the guy into getting married after the one year. he still look down on the guy as he has no stable career. wthell. but as you can see from the couple, it's very hurting to part away from someone you love deeply. however, following the storyline, the guy will probably be falling in love with her younger sister within the year. now that's the bigger problem than the dad. obviously the girlfriend may go mad, blame her dad, kill her sis or something. haha... love, it comes and goes. but it exists, really. but for those who want to hold on to it, be true, loyal, devoted, faithful... love's challenge is to last, and not to hold for that moment. one of the famous chinese quote says that one doesn't care about forever, but only cherish those moments that happened before. i believed it's more for those in the past liao lah. it can't be you're in love, and you're saying this kind of shitz. doesn't make sense to me, does it make sense to you? however, when love comes, it comes. there's no stopping. even if you don't feel it now, you will slowly, but steadily, get in contact with the feeling. now... how to hold on to the love, and be true, is a very big big question in every one's head. they may be confident initially, "how can i ever fall in love with someone else other than her?", "my heart is with her, i can't take in another one". but perhaps they will realise, like the guy in the chinese drama, our hearts, can take more than one. or rather... as the person is slowly diminishing from your life, becuz she's busy, overseas, somewhere you can't see, contact and touch, you may just slowly push bits and pieces of her out of your heart, and have another one filling up the spaces. then out of a sudden, you realise you're loving two ppl. your heart is having two different blood, beating for two. that's when the decision is made. best, the first person suddenly appears out of nowhere, then big drama shall follows. many circumstances, many questions. yet answers, are few. right or wrong, is decided, and felt by the 3 parties. what are we, the outsiders, to condone, comment, or condemn. but let's say... just maybe, you're in one of the 3 of them, in one of the many circumstances that you thought of, what will you do? perhaps, you might just face this scenario when the sun shines on your face again. =)