Meaning of love

So her nick changed to meaning of love. and i'm quite sure it's her own definition.
"a subjective feeling towards one.. but not expecting tt someone to feel the same as u.."
and i'm quite sure most will agree to this statement, if they're thinking abt the greatness of love, how should one behave when they love someone. but being someone trying to catch another heart, read her mind, and grab her hand, this statement seemed to be lacking in something.

love is not about giving only, but recieving. a love that is all about giving to the other party, is not love. it takes two hands to clap, two bodies for a hug, and two lips, for a kiss. love is 2, not 1. yes it's a subjective feeling, you can also not expect that person to feel the same as you, but i'm sure deep down inside, you really wish that that person feel the same way as you. from the brightest star in the night sky, you will wish upon it that that person desire those words from you, a hug, a kiss, basically, that person want to be with you.

but if you don't convey the msg across, or get a reply from the other party, you're putting yourself up for the maximum hurt you can endure before you finally break down in tears. if you don't confess, you will never know how the other party feels, unless they confess. but isn't it silly to wait for the other to tell you first? but everyone's silly. becuz we all want to protect our heart, prevent it from harm. so we will get closer, and closer to the person. getting to know them more and more, understand, examine. as time goes by, you find yourself just couldn't get out of this love well, and in a dilemma of revealing your well-kept feelings and exposing your fragile piece of muscle, or just get tortured by the question, "she loves me? she loves me not? she loves me? she loves me not? ..." while plucking the stupid petals. maybe that was in the past, now i think it's staring at the monitor, just doing what i'm doing now, typing. but i have an answer in my heart already, just refused to believe it. it's like a source-based question, i'm just comparing the facts more biased towards what i wish to have.

what if you have expressed your in-depth emotions, and constantly just waiting for a reply. in the meanwhile you're just doing what you can, let the other party know that you will stay strong in your feelings, hoping that the other party can give you a favourable reply, soon. some will be delighted, some will get a shock, some will be disgusted, some will be confused, some. how long will you wait? how long can you take the heat? what reply can you take? a no? a please hold? a yes is definitely good. but can you take a yes, but we can't get together reply? lots of answers the other party can give, can you take it?

what is love? i rmb one movie, with a really beautiful meaning of love. forgot what's the title.

just thrash it all out with her... felt much better.
believe in her, and myself. =)

you're my only question, that i can't answer myself.