something a friend reminded me

a friend who just got into a relationship told me they just kissed.
it came as quite a shock, not to me, but to the person, that things are already moving so fast.
is 4 days a right time to kiss?
probably the same answer as is daytime or nighttime a better time to kiss?

it seemed to me in relationship, there isn't a proper timeline to follow.
when you're willing to put yourself out there, suffer any thorns that may come your way, but at the same time, bathe yourself in the happiness of it all if the other party is doing the same.
should you hold hands before you kiss? should you kiss first before you have sex? but of cuz, sometimes it's a given since having sex mostly requires kissing as foreplay, or maybe midplay? haha..

no rules to follow in love, for the only rules are set up by yourself, and your self-perceived rules of the other party.
who to pay for the meal? can i hold her hands? can i hug her? can i kiss her?
if there's anyone to decide that, it's the person themselves. or at least, they gotta initiate the actions before the other party could take the hint and grant him the permission or kick him away when guy touch her breasts.

in the passion that you drown in during the honeymoon period, or perhaps the occasionally in the heat of the passion as you gaze into each other eyes, the desire and urge to be with that someone just throws you off the moral issues, or whatever things you have in mind, and just let you put all your attention on this pair of eyes that you're so in love with... basically you just don't think rationally anymore.

love is blind.
for those in love, they are fools to the outsiders.
yet for those outsides, they are fools to the lovers.
it is a fool to see your loved as the perfect person, overlooking any flaws, even major, just becuz loving her, is all that matters.
yet, it is also a fool, to think that love is rational, analyzing and calculating the benefits and costs, goods and the bads.
for love is when you throw yourself into the sea, and then float with that special someone by your side.

okay, enough of talking about stuffs.

stat's project has been pushed back. HURRAY! can do the paper after all my finals are done.

internship is in process. HURRAY! although doing heavy research-based work isn't on my initial list. still, I GOT A JOB~ and i just realized i have no holidays to begin with. 12th end, do project till 16th (deadline), and 16th the starting date of my intern.

at least i have 1 month free in july.

finally, I CAN STUDY.