wearing a mask? or is it just real?

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For those who found it too hard to let go....

It's hard to let go because you never did let go in the first place - even if you think you did.

Time doesn't really heal wounds - what time does is to coerce you in resigning fate and get used to your situation.

Recovery is by choice and quiet reflection, often spurred from personal enlightment.

Sometimes, I find it incredible when people realised that their other half wants out and they will find all sorts of ways and methods to retain them.

Why do anyone wants to 'force' other person to be in a relationship?

Would that actually change anything permanent and not relative by nature?

Placing you as the 'me first' perspective will always work against you from moving on, that's because Love don't really give much damn about an individual alone. If the sum isn't two, then the entire model of love will corrupt, turning the equation into error.

Therefore, your depression is self generated.

Let me quote you a likely scenario: here you are crying over spilled milk and there she is revelling in her new life.

Continue to hold on to nothingness and continue to be melancholy?

Your choice.

Cheers

By Yunhaier
Sgforums


today currently the topic of wearing masks came out during lunch. hmm.. i realised my previous thinking should be changed.

i used to think that everyone wears a mask. but my thinking was fault. becuz in my mind, when you remove all the masks, you're left with nothing; an no-face idiot. it is such that you do not have a base personality to fall back on. but to me, everyone has a natural side. if you have sometimes wonder... why did you behave that way? why can't you take your eyes off this girl that you like in class? why you can't help but give that idiot the stare whenever he's in your line of sight as if he's your arch enemy? why i kept looking at that pink bra that is only slightly visible from her shirt? now that's natural. hahaha...

so it should be something like... everybody does have a base character, personality. but when the times when you can feel you are not acting like yourself to face someone... now that's a mask, an image. something that you wear to conceal your feelings. reasons can vary from the extreme good, to the lamest ones.

if you look at it another way... isn't this a more real side, of your actual self? so is this still wearing a mask... or just pure self? i believe there's a lot of gray areas.


*Hang a wind chime outside your window so you can listen to the wind.

gave wind chime as a gift, so the other party can listen to the wind.
wind, its character is suave.