thinking in my shower.

was thinking during my shower just now.
abt the stupid conversation i had with her.
and abt his behaviours.

it takes 2 to clap.
ppl likes to use this phrase to describe a relationship.
not only in love, but in friendship.

i reflected over some of his actions and found that his priority or thoughts were already diverging away from a group, our group.

in the tight group that we have, it's a consensus among us to do things, together.
taking birthday gifts for example. we tend to buy one gift as a group. as said, it'a a consensus, there's not really a need to say it out. most of the time we're just waiting for someone to initiate buying a gift, and then waiting for some of us to be free to shop and finally buy it.

but he however, doesn't think of it this way. perhaps maybe for just one example, which is their gift to me. i admit, personal gifts are really fine. for close friends, that's very fine. but the fact, or it seemed to me, that we belong to a tight group, but not that close personally since we hardly interact nowadays. a personal gift or a gift by the whole group, i think the latter is a better choice. the reason behind may be he wanted the gift to be timely, no delay, right on the birthday. even so, i think he didn't ask the group what are they getting. why not a group action, but a him-her-and-her action?

i'm lazy to continue on... today is a tiring day.